Casey and I often reflect and dream about the many unknown encounters we must have had around Oklahoma City over the years, growing up so close. We both agree that as much as we’d like to have gotten together sooner, it probably would have been a disaster. We were both very different people in our teens and twenties. We agree that those years of suffering, bad choices and stupid actions may have been inevitable. It's a good thing we didn’t inflict them on each other.